Your own room. Our menu. For dinners that deserve more than a regular table.
Sometimes you want more than a reservation—you want a room. A door that closes. Conversations that stay between your group. Service that's entirely focused on your table.
That's private dining at The Alexander.
Private dining is for smaller groups (8–45 guests) who want a dedicated space without the complexity of a full event. You order from our menu, we bring you food, and the room is yours for the evening.
Private events involve custom menus, beverage packages, and dedicated event coordination—ideal for weddings, large corporate gatherings, and celebrations over 45 guests.
Not sure which you need? Call us at (585) 287-6933 and we'll help you figure it out.
The door closes. The room is yours. Now it's just your group and a dinner worth lingering over.
Private event spaces in a Victorian mansion.
8–16 guests
The building's original turret, now an enclosed private dining room. Completely separated from the main restaurant. Ideal for business dinners, intimate family gatherings, and special occasions that require discretion.
20–45 guests
Mid-century cocktail lounge atmosphere with its own bar. Semi-private with the option to fully close off from the main restaurant. Ideal for larger business dinners, birthday celebrations, and group gatherings.
Call us or fill out the form below with your date, time, and party size. We'll confirm availability.
Your group arrives, is seated in your private room, and orders from our regular dinner menu.
The room is yours for the evening. No time pressure. Stay as long as you'd like.
We can provide a single check or split by guest—whatever works for your group.
Private rooms require a food & beverage minimum that varies by day and room. We'll provide specific details when you inquire.
A credit card is required to hold the reservation. Cancellation within 48 hours may result in a fee.
Guests order from our regular dinner menu. For groups over 20, we may offer a simplified prix fixe option to streamline service.
We typically hold private rooms for 2.5 hours. Extended time may be available depending on the evening.
Client entertainment, deal closings, partner meetings—conversations that need privacy.
Visiting relatives, small reunions, multi-generational dinners without the stress of hosting at home.
Milestone birthdays for groups of 8–45. We'll even bring out dessert with a candle.
Engagements, promotions, retirements—moments you don't want to share with the table next to you.
The room is set. The menu is ready. All that's missing is your group.
Reserve a Private Room