8–16 guests
The Turret Room
Enclosed and intimate. Perfect for small family gatherings or dinner with your closest circle.
Mark the Milestone
Some moments call for more than a restaurant reservation. They call for a room of your own.
Every Milestone Has a Room
From a 16-person birthday to a 150-person holiday party.
Milestone Birthdays
40th, 50th, 60th, 70th, 80th—the decade markers that bring everyone together. A private room, a curated menu, and a setting that says "this one matters."
15–80 guests
Anniversary Dinners
25 years. 50 years. Renew your vows or simply gather the people who've witnessed your journey. Celebrate the commitment in a room that matches its significance.
15–100 guests
Retirement Celebrations
A career honored. Colleagues gathered. The transition deserves a proper send-off—toasts, stories, and a dinner that reflects decades of contribution.
20–80 guests
Graduation Dinners
High school. College. Graduate school. Years of work culminating in a moment worth celebrating with family and mentors who made it possible.
15–50 guests
Family Reunions
When the whole family finally gathers—siblings, cousins, generations reconnecting. A private space means no one has to shout over restaurant noise.
30–100 guests
Holiday Parties
Year-end celebrations for teams of 20–150. The Victorian architecture looks festive without a single decoration—and your team eats dinner from a real kitchen, not a catering tray. Book by September for December dates.
20–150 guests
More Than a Reservation
Why a Private Room Changes Everything
At a regular restaurant, you're competing with other tables, other conversations, other people's timelines. The server needs the table for the next seating. Toasts feel awkward when strangers are listening.
In a private room at The Alexander:
- Conversations flow without shouting
- Toasts and speeches happen on your schedule
- The room is yours for the evening—no one rushing you
- Photos don't include random strangers in the background
- The guest of honor actually feels honored
When Evening Falls
The candles are lit. The room is yours. Now it's time to celebrate.
Menus That Fit Your Crowd
From Classic to Adventurous
Your 80-year-old grandmother and your 30-year-old nephew both need to find something they love.
We work with you to design a menu that works for everyone—whether that's a classic three-course dinner everyone understands, or a more adventurous family-style spread for the food lovers in your group.
Options include:
- Plated multi-course dinners
- Family-style sharing
- Cocktail reception with passed appetizers
- Combination formats (cocktail hour + seated dinner)
"We hosted my mother's 80th birthday here and it was perfect. The private room meant we could take our time with toasts, the food was exceptional, and they even put a candle in her dessert. Everyone is still talking about it."— Google Review
When to Book
Holiday Parties (50+ guests)
Book by August–SeptemberDecember Fridays and Saturdays fill first.
Large Celebrations (50+ guests)
Book 3–6 months in advanceWedding season weekends compete for the same dates.
Mid-Size Events (20–50 guests)
Book 4–8 weeks in advanceWeeknight dates often available with shorter lead time.
Intimate Gatherings (under 20)
Book 2–4 weeks in advanceTurret Room availability is more flexible.
Last-Minute Availability
Call us at (585) 287-6933Cancellations happen.
Choose Your Space
Three rooms, each with its own character.
8–16 guests
20–45 guests
The Tonga Room
Mid-century cocktail atmosphere with its own bar. Ideal for milestone birthdays and anniversaries.
50–80 guests
Main Dining Room
Victorian elegance with dramatic windows. For larger family reunions and celebrations.
Full venue buyout available for celebrations up to 150 guests.
The milestone is yours. The room, the food, and the evening — that’s on us.
Plan Your Celebration